I'm a woman, bisexual, possibly polyamorous, atheist.
I'm also white, citizen of an industrial nation, cis-gendered and generally healthy.
I'm not entitled to judge who or what other people are or what they are allowed or supposed to be.
I can react to other people's behaviour if I feel it is demeaning, disrespectful, repressive, hurtful and indeed dangerous for others. I feel morally obliged to do so.
Other people can react to, judge or stop my behaviour if they feel it is demeaning, disrespectful, repressive, hurtful and indeed dangerous for others. They need no other reason.
It is very likely to happen that I may act protectively about women's rights, yet I still might make a racist comment. Being a woman doesn't make me better enabled to act politically correct. I might even act against the furthering of people's equality, even if it may not be my intention. Being whatever or whoever I am doesn't make me
less likely to act "right", either. People's struggles for more rights, more power and more respect are ongoing and all of us won't always be right, it is the way of things. Nobody can tell me (or you) that I (or you) can't participate in that struggle. They can and will criticise our behaviour, however, and
that is their right that we have to acknowledge if we really want this struggle to succeed.